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The vendor who called at 7am on a Tuesday changed how I handle scope creep
I was mid-pour on a foundation in Columbus when my phone buzzed, it was a vendor asking about a change order I never approved. He claimed he 'assumed' the extra work was fine because I mentioned it in passing last month, and that assumption cost me $1,800. Has anyone else had a partner or supplier rewrite the rules without a written sign-off, and how do you shut that down without burning the relationship?
Honestly, that is brutal. I’ve been in that exact spot and it makes your blood boil, especially when you’re already sweating over a pour and deadlines. People hear what they want to hear, and that “mentioned in passing” line is such a classic move to guilt you into paying. The way I shut it down without going nuclear is to say, “Hey, I appreciate you thinking ahead, but if it’s not on a signed sheet, it didn’t happen. Next time, shoot me a quick text before you start and I’ll confirm in writing.” It puts the ball back in their court, makes them do the paperwork, and you don’t have to call them a liar to their face. Honestly, keeping it about the process, not their intentions, saves the relationship and saves your wallet.