Seeing my sister's patience with ribs changed how I view our fights

I was at a family cookout, and my sister was managing the smoker for ribs. She kept checking the temp, not rushing it. It hit me that she handles our arguments the same way, letting things simmer until they're ready. Back when we were kids, she'd get mad quick, but now she's calm. Watching her with the BBQ, I saw how she applies that patience to everything. It made me think maybe I should learn from her. Now, when we disagree, I remember those ribs and take a breath. BBQ isn't just food, it's a mirror for how we deal with each other.