Showerthought: my brother in law told me to stop tracking every penny and just do a weekly $50 cash envelope, and I fought him on it for a month | Budgeting Wins - Freelance Forum - The Community for Independent Professionals
Showerthought: my brother in law told me to stop tracking every penny and just do a weekly $50 cash envelope, and I fought him on it for a month
He said sitting down with a spreadsheet every night was making me spend more because I'd get lazy and guess instead of check, and after two weeks of the envelope I actually had $140 left over, which never happened before, so now I'm wondering if anyone else ditched the daily tracking for something simpler and stuck with it.
Honestly the thing that finally worked for me was just moving my fun money to a separate account and only checking it once a week. I used to open my banking app like five times a day and it made me stressed and weird about small stuff, like I'd skip a $4 coffee then blow $60 on takeout because I felt deprived. Now I pull $120 out every Monday for gas, food, whatever, and when it's gone it's gone. Tbh it's not perfect but I've stopped guessing and I actually save more because I'm not lying to myself in a spreadsheet every night.