mila_murphy•23d agoProlific Poster

Appreciation post: Someone in my group said my discussion questions were too safe

They pointed out I only asked 'what did you think of the character' and never pushed us to argue. Now I always include one question that forces a side, like 'was the main character's choice at the end brave or selfish?' Has anyone else had to change how they lead a talk?

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hernandez.gavin23d ago

But @jenny_white21, where's the line before a fun debate turns personal?

viola_garcia5623d ago

My cousin runs a book club in Austin and they had a slump because every question was just "did you like it." She started asking if a character's big mistake was more about pride or fear, and people actually stayed late to argue about it. That push to pick a side wakes up the whole room. I try to make my forced-choice questions about the gray areas, not just good vs bad. It's way more interesting when there's no clear right answer and people have to dig for their reasons.

jenny_white2123d ago

My old book club in Portland fell apart because people got too heated over questions like that. It stopped being fun when someone would get actually mad if you didn't agree their take on a villain was right. Sometimes I just want to talk about if I liked the book or not, you know? Not every discussion needs to be a debate club meeting where we pick teams.