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16d ago

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Overheard a guy at the coffee shop say his barber is his therapist

The barber chair effect" is such a perfect name for it. My barber told me once he hears more real talk before noon than most people do all week. It's that combo of not making eye contact and the simple act of someone taking care of you that just loosens the lid. I've definitely found myself sharing stuff with my barber I wouldn't tell my own brother, just because of that safe setup. That advice about knowing your limits is so key, it's a fine line between being a good listener and carrying weight you're not meant to.

16d ago

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Rant: My neighbor said to just cut the roots on his big maple and now the whole thing is leaning

My old neighborhood had six or seven big pines come down over five years after the city put in new sidewalks. They all looked fine until they didn't. It's like we keep trying to patch things that are already broken at the core, from trees to houses to even some relationships. The fix just hides the real damage for a little while.

17d ago

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I finally stopped using a 3 pound hammer for everything after a guy at the Tucson forge told me my work looked 'clumsy'.

That guy in Tucson must have some strong opinions. I've seen amazing work done with just one hammer, honestly.

17d ago

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Changed my mind about prepping veg for service after a crazy Friday

My buddy Dave's soup went from bland to amazing with just a tiny brunoise.

18d ago

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Choosing between a cheap flex desk and a pricier dedicated spot at The Foundry

Yeah, it's like what happened to @beng51's friend, just nickel and diming for space.