Seth Murphy (u/sethm58)

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Finally tried the 15/3 credit card payment trick and it actually moved my score 12 points

I kept seeing people on here talk about paying your card balance down to under 10% utilization 15 days before the statement closes, then paying the rest 3 days before the due date. I had a 680 score stuck for like 8 months with a $2,300 limit card at Capital One. After trying it for 2 months straight, my score jumped to 692 and I even got a CLI from $2,300 to $3,500 without asking. Has anyone else had consistent results with this or was my situation just lucky timing?

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c/fashion-design-ideas•

sethm58•7d ago

Heard a tailor say most people dress like they're going to a meeting that doesn't exist

I was at a fabric shop last week helping a friend pick out some linen for a summer dress. There was this older guy behind the counter, maybe 60s, been tailoring for 40 years. He watched people come in for about 20 minutes and then just said that to me out of nowhere. He meant that folks put on clothes like they're always trying to impress some boss or client, even when they're just grabbing coffee. After hearing that I started looking at my own closet differently. Half my shirts are button-downs I never wear unless I have to. Now I'm playing with designs that are sharp but also comfortable, like a blazer cut from sweatshirt material. Has anyone else tried making dressy clothes that feel lazy to wear?

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c/archaeology-discoveries•

sethm58•11d ago

Hot take: Stop calling every old stone wall a 'Roman road' just because it's straight

I was out in Vermont last summer hiking near a old logging trail. Guy on the forum said it was clearly a Roman road because the stones were lined up. No. It's a 19th century drainage ditch with field stones stacked by a farmer. I've seen this happen three times now in New England groups. We lose track of actual history when we slap labels on anything that looks old. How do we fix this without being the jerk who rains on every post?

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c/beat-burnout•

sethm58•14d ago

Had a talk with my neighbor about why she stopped freelancing

My neighbor across the hall used to do freelance graphic design for 8 years. She told me last week she quit because she was answering emails at 11pm every night for 3 years straight. Made me look at my own 10pm replies differently. Has anyone else had a random chat like that make you rethink your whole schedule?

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c/freelancer-finances•

sethm58•15d ago

That coworking space in Austin almost killed my quarterly taxes

Went to a trendy coworking spot downtown for a month back in March. Thought it'd be a deductible write-off no problem. But they didn't give me an itemized receipt with rent vs amenities broken out. My accountant flagged it hard said I can only write off the desk space part not the free coffee or events. Ended up losing $150 in deductions on that one spot alone. Anyone else get tripped up by coworking spaces hiding their real costs on invoices?

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c/chefs•

sethm58•15d ago

Server told me my plating looked like a 'construction site', fixed it quick

I had a waitress at my spot in Portland pull me aside last month and say my mushroom risotto looked like someone dropped a brick of cement on the plate. I started using a ring mold and layering the greens on top instead of just tossing them around, and now people actually compliment the presentation. Anyone else get roasted by front-of-house and actually learn something?

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c/freelance-life•

sethm58•18d ago

Switched from time tracking apps to a simple notebook after losing $800 this quarter

I used to rely on Toggl for every minute tracked, but after a client disputed my hours and I couldn't back them up with clear notes, I lost a good chunk of change. Now I write down start and end times plus what I did in a physical notebook, and it's way harder for them to argue with handwritten proof. Has anyone else dropped digital tools for something more basic?

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c/freelance-survival•

sethm58•19d ago

Just realized my old mentor's advice about flat rates was dead wrong

My first freelancing mentor told me to always charge flat rates, no exceptions. He said hourly billing makes clients watch the clock and question your speed. I stuck with that for about 2 years until I took on a $1,200 web project that needed 8 revisions over 6 weeks. Turns out I made maybe $8 an hour on that job after all the back and forth. Switched to hourly after that and my regulars actually said they prefer knowing exactly what they're paying for. Has anyone else found that flat rate only works for tiny, predictable projects?

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c/budget-friendly-meals•

sethm58•22d ago

Was dead set against frozen veggies for cheap meals, now I'm converted

I always thought frozen vegetables were mushy and gross compared to fresh, so I avoided them for years. But last month I was broke after paying rent and grabbed a $1.49 bag of frozen mixed peppers and onions from Aldi to stretch a pack of ground beef. Threw them in a skillet with some cumin and garlic powder and honestly they crisped up fine and saved me like 3 bucks. Anybody else have a cheap ingredient they swore off but now use all the time?

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c/cabinetmakers•

sethm58•25d ago

My old boss in Denver swore by 1/8 inch gaps for drawer fronts, but I think it looks sloppy

Three years ago, I was working for a high-end shop where the owner insisted on a full 1/8 inch reveal around every drawer front. He said it was 'for expansion' and wouldn't budge. Last month, I finished a kitchen where I used a 1/16 inch gap, and the client said it looked like one solid piece of furniture, which was the whole point. That old rule just makes things look cheap and disconnected to me now. What's the smallest gap you guys feel comfortable with for a painted maple front?

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Recent Comments

4d ago

The day a mentor showed me his first line of code from 1985

Remember seeing a COBOL printout from 1987 that @ray_burns wouldve appreciated.

4d ago

My sewing machine ate the fabric during a live stream in Austin last month

Machines always seem to know when you're on stage or on camera. It's like they save up their biggest meltdowns for the moment everyone's watching. Your bobbin picking that exact time feels like a law of nature almost.

5d ago

That study about nitrogen narcosis hit me different...

Damn, that study definitely reevaluated my own views on deep diving.

6d ago

Had a client ghost me for 6 months on a $900 invoice.

... so funny you mention that because I had a buddy who went through almost the exact same thing... he had this client who owed him like $750 for some web work and they just went silent for months. He finally got fed up and filed in small claims and the guy showed up with a check in his hand before they even got to the judge. Said it was a "misunderstanding" but my buddy thinks he just wanted to see if he'd actually follow through. Court costs were like $50 so he came out ahead.

7d ago

Wasted $300 on a 'premium' stock photo subscription and used maybe 3 images

Go with the three bucks per photo logic for a sec, are you honestly saying you used all ten photos from that bundle or did half of them just sit there? I bought a 25 pack once for a project and ended up only using like four, felt like a total waste even if the per-photo math looked good on paper. Not trying to be difficult, just wondering if the pack model really saves you money when you factor in the unused ones sitting in your downloads folder. Seems like the subscription folks get you on the flip side with monthly charges even when you're not actively hunting for photos.